How can I overcome this feeling which he may nevertheless be seeing her and speaking with her?
Annie Lane writes the Dear Annie advice line.
Dear Annie: my spouce and i have now been hitched for 43 years. I’ve a life that is good or more I thought. Recently I learned that he’s had an affair. Whenever I asked him about this, he explained it was limited to eight months. In which he stated the explanation had been because i might not start intercourse. Ha, that is a two means road. Anyhow, used to do some checking and discovered away so it had been for 2 years. She has been seen by him on Christmas and New 12 months’s Eve. In which he also came across together with her on the anniversary. I quickly discovered which he went along to see her a couple of hours once I had major lung surgery.
He’s cried and told me just how sorry he could be. And exactly how foolish he had been for achieving this. Each day he has said he is sorry since I found this out. But listed here is my issue. First, he lent her some funds little, but $400, and she reimbursed $100. He has got been calling her wanting the others. I discovered her, and he told me yes, he wants his money out he called. He was told by me to forget it.
Second, he’s got had back surgery 3 times. The final one left him with numbness and weakness both in feet. In which he now has some type or type of erection dysfunction. Therefore, i will be wondering so i can take care of him if he stopped seeing her to come to me. We have experienced sex, but he could be various somehow. It isn’t the exact same it really makes me wonder as it used to be, and.
